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Natasha Lunn

Conversations on Love

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  • Natašafez uma citaçãohá 4 meses
    ‘Life is not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be lived.’
  • Milicafez uma citaçãoano passado
    When I asked psychiatrist Dr Megan Poe why people lose their sense of self in relationships, she said it’s sometimes because they’re trying to ‘echo-locate the other and not reveal the self’ and merge with them.
  • sanfez uma citaçãohá 23 dias
    You’re pretending you don’t need relationship labels or consistent communication or the small acts of kindness that make you feel loved. You’re pretending you don’t need anything at all.
  • missiefez uma citaçãohá 3 meses
    tories. It seems that we cannot know enough about this riddle of our lives. We go back and back to the same scenes, the same words, trying to scrape out the meaning. Nothing could be more familiar than love. Nothing else eludes us so completely.’

    (Jeanette Winterson, The PowerBook)

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  • Nattfez uma citaçãohá 4 meses
    love is not a narrow thing. That love is what makes us care, connects us to each other and the world. That love is a quest, a promise, a home. It’s the force we create to reach each other, with cups of tea and tenderness, with humour and ‘I’m sorry’s; and it’s a world we create with another person, one truth at a time.
  • Nattfez uma citaçãohá 4 meses
    The challenges have shifted in friendships as well: more of my friends are miscarrying, and I have to find ways to sensitively show up for them, while allowing space for any complex feelings they might have now that I’m a mother. Love will always flow through our lives in this inconsistent, unknowable way, and we cannot press pause on the joyful bits, nor fast-forward the suffering. All we can do is keep noticing when there is an imbalance, keep adjusting our efforts to make sure the people we love know that they are important to us.
  • Nattfez uma citaçãohá 4 meses
    In my twenties, friendship was effortless and romantic relationships required work. In my early thirties, marriage felt easy but I had to put more effort into friendship.
  • Nattfez uma citaçãohá 4 meses
    Love is a frequency we can either choose to tune into or ignore.’ We can decide to move through the world in a loving way.
  • Nattfez uma citaçãohá 4 meses
    So my love for Joni folded out into my life in the same way as it had for her father: slowly and steadily, deepening with time and knowledge, until it was as much a part of me as my organs.
  • Nattfez uma citaçãohá 4 meses
    There can be no way of knowing if the relationship will survive, if the adoption will go through, if a parent will live a long life, or if the next person we give our heart to will treat it with care.
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