He's Just Not That Into You

And above all, if the guy you’re dating doesn’t seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start figuring him out, please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be that into you. And then free yourself to go find the one that is.

Make a space in your life for the glorious things you deserve.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.

A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves. If he’s not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, it should only be because he’s showing up at your new residence to do it in person.

But this is what’s hard about this one. It’s very easy to feel stupid about wanting to get married, particularly when you’re with someone who doesn’t. I mean, you two are so happy together—why rock the boat? It’s just like you’re married, so what’s the big deal? What do you care what your family thinks—are they living with you? Just because all your friends are getting married, does that mean you have to? Jeez, it sounds like you don’t care who you marry. You just want to be married.

We’re just supposed to put on our little dresses and do our hair and bat our eyes and hope they choose us

If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.

One guy even said that if she had, It would have spoiled all the fun.

You, the superfox reading this book, are worth asking out.

When men want you, they do the work.