However, some folks that this self-centeredness too far. In their bid to serve their needs, they tread upon the feelings and emotions of others.
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intensity of this may vary from person to person depending on their upbringing, environment, personality, experiences, education and several other factors
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stark reality about manipulation is that it originates from people who are grappling with issues related to security, self-confidence, and comfort.
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persuasion awards the other person a right to select his/her response to a particular situation, manipulation does give the victim the right to choice. Manipulation has only one way – the way your manipulator wants you to take.
Offering excuses and rationalizing -Feigning ignorance -Emotional blackmail -Evasiveness -Demonstrating fake concern -Undermining people -Blaming others and using “who me?” defenses -Lying -Denying -False flattery -Intimidation -Giving the illusion of selflessness -Shaming - Using foot in the door techniques
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words, “He that has once done kindness will be more ready to do you another than he whom you yourself have obliged.” Seemingly small acts like (saying a thank you or being gracious) these go a long way in forging bonds where people truly like you and listen to you.
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I am undeserving or unworthy of people and things!
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Low or No Conscience Lack of consciousness is another fundamental reason for manipulation. When a person fails to realize that he/she is responsible for their own reality, there is a greater tendency to operate without a conscience. Manipulators don’t believe a fair system exists.
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ists. Also, they’ve stopped evolving. They don’t learn from earlier experiences or try to accomplish a state of congruence between inner emotions and external life.
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