Richard Carlson

Whenever we are attached to having something a certain way, better than it already is, we are, almost by definition, engaged in a losing battle.

Whenever we are attached to having something a certain way, better than it already is, we are, almost by definition, engaged in a losing battle

Being patient allows me to keep my perspective. I can remember, even in the midst of a difficult situation, that what's before me - my present challenge - isn't "life or death" but simply a minor obstacle that must be dealt with. Without patience, the same scenario can become a major emergency complete with yelling, frustration, hurt feelings, and high blood pressure. It's really not worth all that.