While parents talk to girls about emotions more than they do to boys, anger is excluded.
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Coping often involves self-silencing and feelings of powerlessness.
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Context is equally critical, however. Our responses to provocation, our assessments, and our judgments always involve a back-and-forth between character and context.
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While we experience anger internally, it is mediated culturally and externally by other people’s expectations and social prohibitions. Roles and responsibilities, power and privilege are the framers of our anger.
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Relationships, culture, social status, exposure to discrimination, poverty, and access to power all factor into how we think about, experience, and utilize anger.
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Anger is also not unidirectional but part of endless mental, physical, and intellectual feedback loops that operate below our conscious understanding.
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If everyone feels anger, why focus on women? Why does gender matter?
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As girls, we are not taught to acknowledge or manage our anger so much as fear, ignore, hide, and transform it.
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On the other hand, anger and masculinity are powerfully enmeshed and reinforce one another. In boys and men, anger has to be controlled, but it is often seen as a virtue, especially when it is used to protect, defend, or lead.
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